Dating extremely attractive women
The first time I ever did something that he specifically did not want me to do, we got into this argument where he insulted me continuously, saying that I was stupid for not listening to him and that he always knows what he's talking about. If we were in a dance club or bar guys would almost line up to take their shot with her although I will say I was the benefactor of many free drinks that floated our way.It was very weird to see him flip like that, and the next time that same subject came up he didn't act like that at all. She had "dated" an OCEAN of men by an early age so along with guys hoping to hop on her there were guys that were always looking her up.He did it once more during another disagreement but I can't remember what it was. We only ever had two arguments during the entire two years we were together, and they were both like that. Luckily this was before Facebook otherwise I would have gone nuts.Going out to a meal was non-existent and if we ever did she would eat a few bites and then light up a cigarette (this was a while ago). There were two occasions that I remember actually seeing her completely nude during sex and I will have those on my death bed to be sure.Just expressing my thoughts/ feelings.edit: clarity Ha alright, I am one of those girls who gets hit on blah blah anyways, yes.
He was very manipulative and convincing, and a good part of the time he'd convince me to do something and it would end up being a good idea so it reinforced the notion that I should always listen to him.When we broke up we stayed friends, still are, I noticed it more then with all the guys coming around now that she was single. The thing I never considered is that really attractive people (I think this may be more so for women, I'm not 100% on that) get a lot of things handed to them and a lot of favors done specifically because they're hot.I would put a photo up, but I don't think I actually have one of her anymore. I dated a girl who was "really hot" because we were clicking pretty well. Well, she'd lived the last 5 years of her life like that, used to be an ugly duckling but that lesson didn't stick later on in life.I've been told I'm good looking by a lot of people but I've never dated anyone really hot. What are the drawbacks that you wouldn't think of at first glance?
Btw, totally optional, but if possible, please include a picture of you and your girlfriend (or, wife, or ex, or whatever) just to gauge actual attractiveness and any difference between you and her. I'm one of those girls and I feel the same way.
I like when a guy takes control because most guys will bend over backwards to accommodate me, when really I just want someone with a backbone.