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And it’s all making me sick.” As individuals with AS age, most develop a wide variety of coping skills and discover ways to mask their behavioral traits so that under many circumstances they can “pass for normal.” You must be very astute to pick up on clues of AS in the beginning of a relationship. Find a healthy and well functioning partner or live with a dog.Men with AS need—and often have been given—explicit instructions to ask you how your day was, to send you flowers, to send flirty or loving text messages every morning, to hold your hand when you walk down the street, to avoid giving monologues on their “special interest,” etc. Life will be far more rewarding.” dated someone who had Asperger’s syndrome and it led to me having a breakdown and suffering from severe depression.It’s an act, one they feel they must put on to win you. “The person with Asperger’s Syndrome may have developed a superficial expertise in romance and dating from careful observation, and by mimicking actors and using the script from television programs and films…Some partners have explained that they never saw the real person before they were married, and after their wedding day, the person abandoned the persona that was previously so attractive.”“We dated for a year, a period of time that, in some ways, felt like a twelve-month-long audition. We got engaged, and still I did everything I could to impress her, because, as I understood it, that’s what a person did when they landed themselves a fiancée.They need support and services in the areas of relationships, social care, living skills, respite and community integration, health, housing, education, employment, etc.
They learn exactly what they should do and say in a romantic relationship, since none of it comes naturally to them.Be cool, I told myself, roughly ten-thousand times a day. I showered Kristen with affection and praise, went out of my way to act supportive, and never once voiced a negative thought or feeling. After we were married, and we were living together around the clock, Kristen began to understand exactly what was hard to love about that guy: he wasn’t entirely real.By our third anniversary, the illusion I’d created had been shattered…With limited empathy for others, connecting with a loved one is extremely difficult, so those with Asperger Syndrome go through life focused on their own needs and wants and often miss what is going on with others.
here is zero desire to hear the other person’s perspective.
It can so thoroughly destroy a relationship that at one time seemed invulnerable.