40 year old man dating 30 year old woman
In later years, the gender gap becomes even wider as men tend to die earlier than women..The other factor that many men forget about is that many of the guys they used to compete with, are now out of the game. Some have just given up on relationships after being burned a couple of times. Finally the biggest factor that an older man has in his favor is that he can now date easily 20 years below him and few people think there is anything wrong with it.So a 45-year-old-man dating a 25-year-old-woman is cool.Which means that a man gets the entire pool of women from 25-60 to date and he can have his pick. I am convinced that what drives so much of the hurt and anger in divorces is the knowledge, whether conscious or subconscious, that she’s competing with all the other women from 25 – 60.Thankfully most people thought I was his older sister rather than his mother.even that stung! I was terrified of negative comments so we never went out.Germaine Greer revealed lately when the man is much younger than the woman there is almost always some manipulation involved. Having said that we connected really well and had some great times regardless of his using me- I guess. The guy would have to be really assuring and treat you like a princess to assuage your insecurities.She's never been married, no children, attractive..looks younger then her age, shy & sweet, likes to cook, good job...working with young children, etc.
Personally life is not supposed to follow a set of rules. My Brother is 11 years younger than his partner and they have been together for 10 or so years. Some people just don't have any luck with finding someone close to their own age who is right for them as a couple. Do you have someone in mind who you want to ask out?
I don't know who Germaine Greer is, but I think there is manipulation involved in all age gap relationship, regardless of gender, when the younger person is under 30.
I also think the person being manipulated often remains unaware even when the relationship ends.
Mine was in the beginning; telling me how beautiful I was....proud he was to be seen wit me etc... In the end my self consciousness rubbed off on him and I think he became selfconscious. It ended badly and he is now with someone his own age.
You would have to be a very strong person with loads of self-worth, self-Love 'cos unforunately society does comment and judge, people often assuming it must be just a good sex life keeping it together. I shrugged off this view but have come around to agreeing it doesnt generally work. Some problems encountered esp if you are shy like me were, being seen together socially.— Boys learn to chase girls in high school and college.